Mentors
I did not get here alone.
I have had many mentors I’ve met along the way and several I still stay in touch with regularly.
A mentor is defined as someone who is an “experienced and trusted advisor.”
Everyone knows mentors are a great thing to have, but the question I usually get asked is, “How did you find your mentors?” Here are some ideas:
I serve on the board of a non-profit organization. Being surrounded by those who are much more successful and farther ahead than I am, but have the same heart to serve those in need creates a common mission that bonds us instantly. I have found that they are more than happy to not only give their treasures and talents to those in need, but also their time to like-minded people who want to learn from them.
I serve in my church. Many of those you see volunteering have a natural gift of ministry and service and so they love to pour out on others. I was fortunate to find leaders in my church through talking story or praying together before and after service. They have even more to give than what you might see weekly on Sunday.
I entered a business competition and as part of the prize, I was given an opportunity to learn from a highly successfully and extremely smart business coach who turned out to be a stellar guy! I loved him so much, I asked him to continue to be my mentor past the one-year commitment and I probably meet with him the most to this day. Sometimes the best pairings can come from meeting a complete stranger. Opening up is hard at first, but over the years, you develop a trust and understanding that is so worth the risk.
I found another business I love, met the owner, and when we clicked, we became friends and hang out over coffee (and chocolates) when we can squeeze it in so we can catch up pouring our hearts out with no filter as we pour coffee down our throats! It’s great to have this kind of person to talk to who knows what you’re going through. One of these business friends is about 10 years ahead of me and I think of her as my “big business sis” and she calls me her “business bestie.” It helps to not go through it alone.
I enjoy talking to older family members. You never know their history and what they’ve overcome and sometimes you’ll be surprised to learn what they’ve done and what they can still offer! Learn from them before it’s too late. Believe it not, they really want you to ask!
erin’s tip
The point is, find a mentor. Find a few. And make sure your values align, you can trust them, and they are looking out for your best interest! :)
Special shout out to all of my mentors! ;) Thank you for being on this journey with me.
